My First Year in College : A Quest for Knowledge Continuing from where we left in Part-1, The next lesson for me was: Learning people's perspectives! Maturity is when you realize everyone has their own perspective on the same thing, and everyone is right from their own POV. This helped me a lot while surviving in such a big crowd. When I looked at myself from someone else's perspective, I could see how I had made some mistakes too, and at the same time, I could also see how that person felt about it, giving me a clear insight into where I needed to improve. And at a few places, seeing from their perspective and still finding them to be wrong made it easier for me to make decisions about my stand. Control : This lesson came as a surprise to me, although I'm sure some people might have found it easy. Sadly, it took me 18 years to realize that there is a lot more out of my control than there is in mine! No matter how hard you try, there are some things that are meant to happe...
